Five Reasons Why You Cannot Learn Relationships Well

Aristotle's three kinds of relationships

Relationship of pressure, Relationship of utility and Relationship of shared virtue. In those types of relationships just analyse that under which yours fall. Relationship of pleasure is an attraction towards sex. As long as your spouse is excited to have sex they will be nicer with you. Once they start bored, they will not consider your inner feelings. Most of the relationships just fall under this category. The consequence will be worst. Both of them will lose happiness and they will be mentally affected. They will start living for their parents and society. They have to act forever.

It is an unavoidable thought that marriage life is bonded with sex but what if it is totally relies on sex and only sex? So it is important to think again and again that how your partner has mind-set in sexual things. This is what called as "Relationship of pleasure."

Relationship of utilities:

This kind of relationship tells how much your partner gets attracted with you by analysing the utilities.

That is, how beauty, how familiar and prestigious they are. And how rich they are?. By getting attracted towards them with these kind of qualities will give you pleasure for someone moths some years but not forever. Because they will disappear at any stage of our life. If you love comes on seeing utilities obviously, it also will disappear when your utilities go. So before selecting a partner think twice that they do not love you by just seen your abilities.

Relationship of shared virtues:

It is a kind of relationship that does not consider sexual willing utilities and all. Instead, this will ensure a perfect relationship between you and your partner. They will love forever without any expectations. They will just love for you what you are. They will work for the growth and fulfil your dreams this is what a perfect relationship that will long last. Those are called as Aristotle’s three kinds of relationship that everybody should know before selecting their partners.

Equalising relationships:

Your partner should be talent enough to handle all kind of relationships. For example, they should handle you, your parents and their parents. Because it is a basic thing that every home we will space such issues. Some clashes may happen between family members. In some families this will happen daily. So, if your partner is not talented enough to handle such situations, it will lead to big issues. Sometimes, it results in breakage of relationships. If they can handle those situations, they will save all relationships. They should know how to equalize everybody, indirectly they should care and give more importance to you than everybody.

Questioning:

Questions are not just words .They are the main reason for everything in this world. Without questioning there would be no world, no science and no inventions. There would be no anything without questioning. The same questioning has the power to end your relationships. Questions are categorised upon in which slang or modulation they are raised. For example, questioning someone as, “had your breakfast" is not same at all times. It differs depending on who ask this. A mother will ask in a caring manner. A doctor will ask in a querying manner. A friend  will ask in a teasing manner. Hence questions are important in expressing our views. When your partner asks you, "where you are?  where you went ? why are you late? With whom you are talking?", may end up your relationship sometimes. So be careful while questioning your partner and also be aware that how much questioning and what kind of questioning person your partner is. Of course, too much of questions will mess everybody up. But only few of us realise that those questions are raised with real care. And also it is important to find out dominating questions. No one will like to be dominated by their partners or anyone else. So if you want to question your partner is clear with your slang or with your phrase. Don't question them very much. Instead of that give them soft advices.

Life example of Leena:

Lena was a beautiful girl in her area. She was matured enough to get married. Since she was beautiful she got love and marriage proposals from friends relatives and neighbours. She knew very much that everybody proposes her for her beauty. She said her parents that she wants some time to know about the person whom she is going to get married and wants to know about him before marriage. Her parents agreed too. Every time they see a bride groom, they let her to talk with that person to get connected with him. After she analysed them she rejected. Her parents too did not object her for that activity. Because they know,  a divorce is not better than rejecting bridegrooms before marriage. Leena took her own time she found that guy who is not just admired her beauty, family background and financial status. She also chooses that guy after analysing his level of ego possessiveness and how equal rights he gives to her. She got married happily. She has self satisfaction that she selected someone whom she loves. And now she feels it as arranged-cum-love marriage. If she worried about others what they will say that this girl has not got married she has some drawbacks that is why bride grooms are not selecting her. She did not worry about it all. She chose her life in her own style. And she is happy now. Let's take Leena's life as an example.

An entertainer:

Life has ups and downs in every stage. Our mind gets upset even for small issues. We lose our happiness. We can't forward to next step. In such cases our partner should be like a motivator for us. They have to care us. They should let us talk frankly about our every problems. They should be a good guidance and a well wisher for us. Whenever they see sadness in our face they have to wipe it out. Everybody dreams their partner should be their "life-changer". They should take you out when your mind need freshness. They should be like minded. Your spouse should be a fool like you. They should be mad in some things that you are mad with. It is not an issue that your partner does not have same favourite  movies, directors, musicians. But what if your spouse is not at all interested in cinema? Little difficult right?  So know your partner’s interest too.

Dream chaser:

Your partners should be a dream chaser not only their dream but also yours. They should respect your goals. It may be your passion about singing, dancing, writing, politics or sports whatever a partner should be a partner of all your dreams and goals. They must be your better half. They should mean it.

A partner is not just one who stays with us in our home, who sleep with us, who comes out with us. Instead, they are someone who has feelings for us who worth our hearts, who stays with us with love forever. So, choosing a partner is notjust an objective type question. But it is an objective of life.